tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2974810183171394640.post7124297370992163084..comments2009-03-08T20:31:38.110-04:00SDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15576400580683995136noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2974810183171394640.post-84946977847078794482009-03-08T20:31:00.000-04:002009-03-08T20:31:00.000-04:00This is a great post, not because I think it's good you had a bad experience, but just because it was so honest and easy to read.<BR/><BR/>Some clubs do have voyeurism rooms. You can go inside and have sex with your partner while others watch.<BR/><BR/>"I don't know how you can completely assure that partners you engage with are clean. Do you require proof of STD tests? How does it work? Does anyone know?"<BR/><BR/>On the extremely rare occasions when I had group sex and strangers were there, I insisted on seeing a set of STI test results that had been taken within a week of our meeting. I returned the favor, of course. If the other people weren't willing to do that, I didn't sleep with them.<BR/><BR/>Generally speaking, though, my FWB relationships were all just that: FRIENDS with benefits. They were people I knew and trusted. We still were cautious--tested regularly, used male and female condoms, brought up any new partners so nobody was in the dark--and better than that, we knew we had good chemistry.BBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02041579553146301641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2974810183171394640.post-69245642543667302552009-03-07T00:45:00.000-05:002009-03-07T00:45:00.000-05:00What a beautifully honest post. Thanks so much for sharing that.<BR/><BR/>My wife and I talk often of various swinging scenarios but I admit that the possibility of STIs would remain a very large concern and obstacle.<BR/><BR/>My best to you and thanks again. You write beautifully.13messageshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15423518021779291575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2974810183171394640.post-83685791481129591332009-03-06T21:54:00.000-05:002009-03-06T21:54:00.000-05:00I'm finally at the point in my life where I can admit the past. I've made SO many mistakes that I hope to get around to posting but all these are little pieces that make up the bigger picture of who I am. I'm offering them for other people so hopefully they'll be a little more armed with information and possibilities if they ever decide to swing. Thank you for reading and enjoying, it means a lot to me.SleepingDreamerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15576400580683995136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2974810183171394640.post-84126326220999214552009-03-06T21:42:00.000-05:002009-03-06T21:42:00.000-05:00wow.. I would say 'what a great story' but it's your life. Well told, thanks for sharing.Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02374683393555661026noreply@blogger.com